Confidence Course
Confidence Course
konfidence Course · founding offer
Raise a kid who goes for it. Even when you're not there.
Help your kid speak up, try hard things, and bounce back from failure — starting with the example you set. A practical, parent-first course for raising outrageously konfident kids.
First 100 get forever-cheapest pricing · Self-paced in Circle
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Outcome Speaks up Raises their hand. Asks the question. Says what they actually think. |
Outcome Tries hard things Tryouts. Introductions. Goes after what they're excited about — even with a chance of failing. |
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Outcome Bounces back Doesn't make the team. Gets rejected. Tries again instead of deciding they're not good enough. |
Core idea Trust > certainty konfidence isn't believing you'll always succeed. It's trusting yourself enough to try. |
“The heaviest burden a parent can give a child is the unlived life of the parent.”
— Carl Jung
It shows up in you first.
When researchers study anxious kids, the same three things keep showing up. They overestimate danger, underestimate themselves, and talk down to themselves. I saw it in myself after my home life blew up — then I saw it in my kids.
The world feels bigger than it is
You don't go for what you should. Your kid holds back because they're scared — not because they can't.
You sell yourself short
You play smaller than you could. Your kid shrinks in groups when you know they can shine.
The critic talks loudest
You second-guess after you speak. Your kid talks down to themselves out loud.
Kids of anxious parents are up to 7× more likely to develop anxiety. When parents change, kids change with them. Focus on the only thing you control: you, and the environment you create.
Golda Ginsburg, PhD · Johns Hopkins
Cheerlead vs mentor
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Moment “I can't do it.” Don't just praise. Break it into something they can try — let them discover what they're capable of. |
Moment They fail and want to quit Don't rush to soothe. Separate outcome from identity. Learn. Decide what to try next. |
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Moment Scared to speak up Don't speak for them. Help them prepare — then give space for their own voice. |
Pattern Parents quit first They want confident kids… while they've stopped going for what they want themselves. |
Why I built this
One-on-one clarity calls kept showing the same pattern: a kid who talks down to themselves, stops going for what they want, treats every failure like a verdict — and a parent with the same story.
We worked on the parent first. Conversations at home changed. Not every parent can spend thousands on coaching — so I built the konfidence Course: the same principles, plus a distilled version of every exercise for your kid.
The goal: every time your kid leaves your house — school, sports, co-parent — they leave with a little more trust in themselves.
What you walk away with
- Clarity on what you value — so the goals you chase are actually yours
- A real understanding of confidence, self-trust, and what to do when stuck
- Awareness to stop putting a negative voice in your kid's head
- A family culture of high standards and high support
- A growth mindset your kid can lean on long after the course
- Scripts for what your family believes — so you're the first call when it's hard
Inside the course — five shifts
Know what you're actually going after
Listen to your heart again. Know your value so you never trade it.
Shut up the voice that talks you out of things
Find the inner critic and kill it. Nightly routine that ends negative self-talk.
Show up as the version of you that goes for it
Build an alter ego that does the brave thing — for you and your kid.
Get better at hard things
Get lost in the work. Turn failure into feedback. The power of “yet.”
Raise a kid who goes for it
High standards + high support. Family creed. Bedtime win ritual. Exact words for hard moments.
Also: parent/child workbook every module + konfidence Conversations with experts over time.
Forever-cheapest for the first 100 · Self-paced in Circle
I'm not a psychologist. I'm a dad who needed this.
Painfully shy kid. Couldn't say my R's until sixth grade. Former M&A lawyer. Concerned dad after a tough divorce. Today 300K+ people follow the parenting and confidence work.
konfidence isn't a mindset. It's a learnable skill set — and it gets better when you work at it.
This is for you if…
See at least three?
- You keep thoughts to yourself because they “don't matter”
- If success isn't guaranteed, you'd rather not try
- You skip the party / practice / conversation
- You decide — then doubt it for an hour
- “Sorry” comes out before you've done anything wrong
- You replay rough moments on a loop
- The loudest voice says “I'm not good enough”
- A dream sits on the shelf because it might not work
Not for you if: you want a Friday script that “fixes” your kid; you want to assign it and stay out (you go first); or you need therapy. This is skill-building, not treatment.
FAQ
What's the founding offer?
First 100 members: $197 forever-cheapest for early feedback and testimonials.
I have the Kickstart. How is this different?
Kickstart = quick start. Course = full system — five shifts, step by step, with a kid-friendly path home.
Co-parent isn't on board?
You don't need them. It's what you model and say on your time.
Not divorced?
Yes — works for married parents too. Divorce-specific challenges are addressed head on.
Not a parent?
Yes. Principles work anyway. Mentor Mastery helps managers, coaches, leaders.
Kid under 5?
Kid conversations best ~7+. Under 5: lessons are still for you — and that's most of the impact.
Time?
5–10 minutes per lesson, your pace.
Where?
Circle. Self-paced from the day you join.
Therapy?
No. Skill-building. Clinical needs belong with a professional — this can sit alongside.
You can't be there for every hard moment.
Someday they'll raise their hand, approach someone new, face rejection, or take a chance without you.
You can shape the voice they hear: I've done hard things before. I can figure this out. And even if I fail, I'll be okay.
Know Yourself. Trust Yourself.